Update!

Hey everyone, long time no post! I've been super busy, what with morning sickness (I'll talk more about my pregnancy later), taking care of Kate, and working on my new job!

First things first, I finally got a new job! I manage an online website, taking care of little issues that come up and such. I get all of the emails, complaints or compliments, which is stressful taking time to reply to everything. I also get articles sent in for the website (beauty website) which I have to edit and make them the best they can be before sending them to my manager. If she approves, I have to forward it to the website editor who will actually post it, and I have to send out an email to all of the subscribers saying that something new has been posted. It's not the hardest job, it just has a lot of details to manage which I am pretty good at! The best thing is that it is a very flexible position! I have to log 4 hours a day in, which isn't hard at all because Kate naps a lot, plus she goes to bed early! I love my new job because I don't need a college education! I do plan on furthering my college career, but I have changed my interests, I want to get a degree in nursing! Not necessarily the kind of nurse you see at the doctors office for a check up, but a maternity nurse! I love babies, and I love pregnancies, so I think it would be a great career option for me. I plan to start classes in the next few weeks, just a few online classes, nothing major! I don't care how long this takes me, it's what I want to do! I don't want to start right now anyway, I'm happy with my current job and want to spend time with my babies. (future and present)

Now for my pregnancy update! I am 14 weeks exactly as of today! I am really excited, I am almost half way through this pregnancy, and it has gone by so fast! I am officially in the second trimester! I am starting to feel more pregnant, I have a little baby bump :) It's not huge, but it's definitely noticeable without a shirt on. I still fit into my normal tops, but I have switched in maternity jeans because my little bump is really low and my regular jeans are so uncomfortable. I'm sure it's going to get much worse though, so I really shouldn't complain! I've also had really bad morning sickness, if I don't eat something right when I wake up, I will tend to be nauseas all morning and it's really miserable. I've just gotten into the habit of feeding Kate and then eating immediately after. It has been fading though, I've heard its worse in your first trimester! I also have really bad low back pain, and I've been so tired no matter how much sleep I get! In case I didn't mention it before, I'm due on April 25, 2014! I'm really excited, but yet I want to drag this pregnancy out as much as I can because I love it so much :)

Kate is also doing amazing! She is almost 11 months, her birthday is December 2nd. We adopted September 2nd, so it's been almost 2 months! I can't imagine life without her, it's been so hectic but I wouldn't change it for the world! Kate is on a schedule, she naps 2-3 times a day and eats 3 meals a day with many snacks in between! She loves food, I never did formula because it would be too much a hassle and she was 9 months when we got her! We read stories at 7:30, and she goes to bed by 8! She usually wakes up around 9. Kate loves to play, she is such a verbal baby! She hasn't said her first word yet, but I can tell she is getting very close! She screeches and points when she wants things, and cries rarely. I am almost always able to tell what she wants, because of her ability to point  and grab. Kate is standing, she started to stand a few weeks after we got her, and now she can walk a few steps without help! She hasn't fully mastered walking yet, but I'm sure by the time she is a year she will be walking and saying a few words. I am so excited for her to grow up and experience new things, but in the same way I never want her to get bigger!

Jasper is the same as always, I love him to death and he loves me right back. We are so happy together, our relationship as a married couple is better than ever. He loves Kate as much as I do, and always plays with her when he gets home from work! He works 6am-6pm, a full 12 hours with a half hour lunch break! He spends most of his evening playing with Kate, and then with me once she goes to sleep. The only good thing about him working so much during the day is that he rarely brings work home with him! It's great, so at home he can focus on me and Kate, and of course his little baby :) Technically, it's not his biological baby in my belly, but it's close enough ;) Anyway, I am really happy with the way my life has been turning out, I'm happier than ever and promise to keep you all updated :D

Changes!

Hey everyone! As you all are aware, Jasper and I adopted! Monday, September 2nd was the day we met our baby girl Kaitlyn, she goes by Kate! Kate is 9 months old, and the sweetest baby in the world :) We met her at 3pm, and I just held her and all while Jasper signed the papers to make the adoption official, she is our daughter! Instead of hoping on a plane home, like I told you guys, we got married! It was just a simple service, I was in a dress and all but we didn't have any bridesmaids, it was just me and Jasper. I walked down the aisle, and we were married with Kate and the preacher the only ones there. It was one of the best days of my life, pledging my love to Jaspy! On the way home we held hands on the plane, and when Kate fell asleep we got a little distracted and I jumped on him and we made out very friskly and tore off each others clothes, so happy to be married! For some reason, the flight attendant stopped us! I don't understand, I mean we were just expressing our love for each other in a public place. So we got dressed again and just stuck to light kissing. What fun is that when I know how frisky Jaspy can get when he is let lose?? We arrived in Cali late Monday night, we put Kate to bed and had our honeymoon that evening in our new home together as a married couple! Tuesday Jasper started work, it was tough for me going so long without my lover! He works 6am to 6pm, to support our growing family! Jasper is 21, in case you forgot, and I am 20! My birthday was Tuesday, so sad Jaspy couldn't be with me. I spent the day with Kate, and when she was napping or just occupied I unpacked and all! I finished just in time to make dinner when Jaspy came home, and we went out shopping to IKEA and other places for some furniture, our first family affair! We got a vanity for our bedroom, bed for the guest room, crib and diaper stand for Kate, and a toy chest! We also went to Bed, Bath, and Beyond and got comforters, sheets, and such, plus a few flower vases! At Mattress Heaven we got a mattress for the guest bedroom! It seems like a lot of money for us newlyweds to be spending, but my uncle is a millionaire (he is on ABC on the shows The Fosters, Pretty Little Liars, and Twisted) and gave us a very generous wedding gift, and even bought our house for us so we don't have mortgage on that, which is a big relief to us! Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday were typical days, I just played with Kate, cleaned, and searched for jobs online! I am looking for an online occupation that doesn't require a college degree, because I need to support our family!

This past weekend we went to visit my parents! My mom was so glad to see us and meet Kate! I can't believe how different life was 2 months ago, I lived at home with my parents and didn't even meet Jasper yet. My life now has had so many drastic changes, moving to college, breaking up with Jake, pregnancy #1, miscarriage, meeting Jasper, getting engaged, pregnancy #2, moving in with Jasper, adoption, and now marriage! I wouldn't give up my life for anything, I love my little growing family and wouldn't change anything about how my life has turned out :)

Long Weekend/Big News!

Big news everyone! Jasper and I moved into our new house! Saturday after we got back from California, we got a call from our realtor saying that we needed to move into our home right away or the offer would be withdrawn! I'm not sure why, he said it was classified information of the owners, but all he knew was that we had to move in immediately! I flipped, we weren't even married yet! Jaspy was his usual calm self, brought me in for a kiss when I told him, then went to pack his things while I told his mom and called my mom! We got a moving truck to come Sunday afternoon, earliest they could comply with, so all afternoon/evening Saturday we packed! It was so crazy and stressful, but I knew it would definitely be worth all of the hassel when I was in my new home with Jaspy, all alone! Sunday morning Jasper and I woke up early, finished up the packing, and put some things in the trunk of his car. My car was still in Pheonix! We left around 8am, and arrived at our new home at 1am! We already had the key (stopped on the way to sign papers/get the keys and all). We live an hour away from my parents, and 5 hours away from Jasper's parents! We do live in California, but just not in LA or anything. Our house is amazing! It has 2 master bedrooms, one will be ours and one a guest room! It also has 3 other bedrooms, a kitchen/dining room, living room, play-room, office room, and an entry way! I'm sure you all are wondering why we need such a big house for 2 people! I didn't want to say anything yet, but I'm still pregnant! It turns out when I had my miscarriage, I was pregnant with twins but only one came out and the other is still inside me! Sorry if TMI. This may sound imposible, but it's not it's just a very rare case! It is Jake's baby though, I told him and he's fine with it! I am about 5 weeks, I conceived July 26th! Also, we are adopting! We just can't wait until we get married to have children, we just want to start our lives together! Her name is Chi, she is from Utah! I have no idea why her name is Chi, but we have decided to call her Kaitlyn Chi Smith! She is a sweetie, she is 9 months old and her parents are druggies and don't want her anymore! I have seen pictures, who could not want my sweet little baby :) Anyway, yesterday when we got to our house and all, we spent the afternoon unpacking what we had brought! Just the essentials, and a few other things. After having dinner together, the moving truck came at 6 and we spent all evening unpacking! We are actually doing pretty good, we almost got everything done! This morning we finished unpacking, and packed our suitcases again! Our plane for Utah left at noon! You must think this is going pretty quick, but actually I have been working on adopting for the past year! Jake and I were going to get married next year or so, and we wanted to start our family right away and have children when we got married! But, since we broke up, right around then I got a conformation for this little girl, so I told Jasper and he agreed to it! This date has been set for less than a month, but we are still so excited to meet our little girl! We arrived in Utah almost an hour ago, and we are driving to the adoption center, we meet Kate (Kaitlyn) at 3pm and take her straight home with us to Cali! :)

Jasper!

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Hey everyone! So today has been a day filled with 3 things. Jasper, Jaspy, and Jaspy's body! It's just amazing, I love him so much and obviously can't wait until the wedding. Late last night we drove down to the coast of California to stay at the beach for the weekend! The car ride was torture, sitting to close to him but yet not touching him and kissing him everywhere. As soon as we got to the hotel though, in the lobby while the doorman was bringing our bags to our room, we let it out because I couldn't hold it in anymore! We tore our clothes up in the lobby and fell to the floor, getting so frisky we rolled around for about 3 minutes! Then, the doorman squatted down, tapped my shoulder, and asked if he could join! He stripped and laid down next to me, but Jaspy and I got up, creeped out! At that point another doorman came over, fired the naked guy, and told us to go to our rooms or we would be kicked out! He gave us 2 towels to wrap around ourselves. Jaspy just put his around his waist to cover up his boy parts, I had mine around my chest to cover up my lady parts! In the elevator, he was so close, and it was impossible to not find his bare chest distracting! As soon as we got into our room we ripped the towels off and got in the bath tub together! It was pure ecstasy, by the way that was this morning! We did that for about 79 minutes then went down to get breakfast! It was torture, having to put on clothes, but I just put on a bikini and he put on his swimsuit trunks! So we had breakfast together, I had cucumbers, carrots, and we shared a smoothie consisting of apples, oranges, and spit! It was just delicious. Then we decided to go swimming to burn off the calories! We swam for a little, but then I got bored after 7 minutes so we made out! It got so frisky we tore off our swim wear and did our thing in the pool! Then, a security guard came and kicked us out of the hotel! We packed up our things and went down to the lobby to check out when the couch distracted us, so we tore off out clothes and did our thing again on there! Then, some dude had to physically pull us apart and carry us outside to Jasper's car, with our luggage! We just spent the afternoon in the backseat of the car until we got kicked of the premises. Now, we are heading back to Phoenix, after an amazing day with Jasper!

Past Few Days!

Hey guys, I haven't posted in a few days, sorry about that! I've just been pretty busy with work and my wedding and all. Wednesday I had to work extra because I took off a few hours Tuesday to look for cake flavors, so I had to work 6-6! Crazy, huh? Wednesday night Jasper went with his groomsmen for tuxes, he sent me pics though, he looked so hot ;) Can't wait to get some of that on our wedding night! :D I just Skype with my mom while he was gone and we talked about my wedding and what I have done so far and all! Today was a pretty good day, turns out the electricity went off in the building last night, so I didn't have to work! I also have off tomorrow and Monday for labor day, which is fantastic!! Anyway, I slept in with Jasper until about 10am, when we woke up at the same time (romantic, huh?) and then kissed in my bed until around noon, when we got up and had lunch! His mom made us mac and cheese, we fed each other while she sewed matching bibs for us so next time I don't get any on my naked body, like today! After lunch Jasper and I went to a local butterfly place, where butterflies land on you and you can touch them and all! But, Jaspy and I got distracted and just ended up making out on the floor of the room and we tore each others clothes off and got banned from the premises! Tough luck. So we continued our thing in a porta potty for about 2 hours, and then went out to dinner together at Super Salad! So happy they have one in Phoenix, too! We, sadly, had to put our clothes back on to go in. But, of course, we got a secluded booth!! :D :D Right now he is taking a bath, I am about to go join him before going for my wedding dress fitting with my bridesmaids minus Ella!

Beginning of Work!

Hey everyone, my first 2 days of work went great! I'm so glad I found such a well-paying job as this one! I had work at 9, so I was able to sleep in until 8am! That is definitely a plus :) At work I just answered the phone, scheduled appointments, and took messages! Sounds simple, but it's actually a lot of work when the phone rings almost all day long without a break! I got off at 6, and then Jasper and I went to look at invitations! We found the style I want (white background with magenta and yellow flowers)! I wrote down the message we want, and put out the order for them to be calligraphized! They will be done in exactly one week, pretty fast service! Anyway, afterwards Jasper and I cuddled on the couch, he was rubbing my boobs, while his mom watched and gave him suggestions! It was great, so relaxing. Then we both went to our rooms after saying goodnight, rolling on the hallway floor kissing until his little sister came and stepped on my ear! This morning was pretty much the same, work at 9-3 though, same things, and then we went to taste cake flavors after dinner! I have decided on vanilla lemon swirl, something very elegant but delicious, with raspberry icing! YUMMY IN MY TUMMY. Afterwards Jasper and I went to burger kind for a milkshake but after ordering we got distracted with my low cut top so he tore it off and we made out for about 7 minutes until the car behind us honked and all! So after getting out milk-shakes we went to a secluded meadow and did our thing for for about 3 hours before getting dressed again and heading back home! :)

Honeymoon Plans!

Last night, as I told you, Jasper and I made all of the plans for our honeymoon! It was great, it will definitely be heaven on earth! We are going to hawaii, so he will be able to see me in a bikini! That is definitely a plus, also he will be shirtless the whole time! :D The wedding will be a morning wedding, at 11am! We will be having a tent outside for ordeurvs while the wedding party and all does pictures with us, and then lunch will be served around 1:30, and we have the reception room until 5! The afternoon will definitely be filled with a lot of dancing, I want everyone up of their butts and shaking their booty on the dance floor, having the time of their lives! Jasper and I will head off to a hotel for the night, near the airport, and have dinner there and stuff! Of course, the night will be filled with two people getting frisky, if ya know what I mean ;) Our flight is Sunday morning at 11, so we will fly to Hawaii and stay until Saturday evening! We both were able to get off of work for a week, that I'm so thankful for! I am actually only staying with that job until a few weeks after the wedding, because Jasper and I found a house in down-town LA an hour from my family, 4 from his! We signed all of the papers and such today, and we get to move in November 2nd! I am so happy, this will be a great beginning for Jasper and I to start out our lives as a married couple! :)